This is the traditional guide for the sharing of expenses. Of course you have the option to part from tradition and share expenses in any manner where both families feel comfortable.

  • Bride’s bouquet
  • Mothers’ and Grandmothers’ corsages
  • Boutonnieres for men in the wedding party
  • Clergy fee (if any)
  • Marriage license
  • Tuxedos
  • Wedding rehearsal dinner or luncheon
  • Gifts for best man and ushers
  • Limousine
  • Honeymoon


  • May participate in the cost for wedding tuxedos, or each man may pay for his own.